Ableism and Parenting: The Air Our Children Breathe

Ableism and Parenting
Definition of Talila A. Lewis' definition of ableism: ableism is a system of assigning value to people's bodies and minds based on societally constructed ideas of normalcy, productivity, desirability, intelligence, excellence, and fitness. These constructed ideas are deeply rooted in eugenics, anti-blackness, misogyny, colonialism, imperialism, and capitalism. 
This systemic oppression leads to people and society determining people's value based on their culture, age, language, appearance, religion, birth, or living place, "health/wellness," and/or their ability to satisfactorily re/produce, "excel" and "behave." You do not have to be disabled to experience ableism. 
working definition by tall A. Lewis updated January 2022 developed in community with disabled Black/Indigenous radicalized people. More info: bit.ly/ableism2022

Ableism and parenting intersect in ways most people never consider—until children begin absorbing the quiet lessons our culture teaches about whose bodies are valued and whose are questioned. Simply put, ableism is the discrimination disabled people experience. However, I like Talila A. Lewis’  working definition the most. Talila is a multilingual abolitionist, artist, educator, writer, movement strategist, and community lawyer. 

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The 2025 YEA members are thrilled to invite you to join a live discussion with Eli Clare. Eli Clare is well known in the disability community as a writer, speaker, activist, teacher, and poet. You can learn more about Eli at EliClare.com. We warmly invite disabled young people to join us for what promises to be an unforgettable and empowering discussion on 📅 Tuesday, November 18th at 2:30 PM (EST). The conversation and interview questions are curated by and for disabled young people. Register with the QR code below or here.

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The National Center for Dignity in Healthcare and Community Living for People with Disabilities

Watching the Chainsaw Come For Me

Cuts to Medicaid and Disability Independence

by Cassandra Brandt

Cuts to Medicaid and Disability Independence- Image of Cassandra - she is sitting in a hot pink wheelchair. She has shoulder length blonde hair with stripes of pink in it, a green shirt, and jeans.

I didn’t have anything to worry about with the threat of cuts to medicaid and my independence, they said. My need is legitimate. My disability is severe.  I’m a C3-4 quadriplegic, paralyzed from the shoulders down. I rely on the social safety nets in place: Social Security Disability checks pay my bills and Medicaid and Medicare pick up my hefty healthcare tabs, frequent cab rides to appointments, and caregiver services that allow me to live independently. If these services are cut, so is my autonomy; I’ll be back in an understaffed institution.

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